For example, here is how you do it. For example, there are assets, the court may revoke the direct payment order and order that all future payments be withheld from your paycheck. Can My Facebook and Other Social Media Posts Be Used Against Me in Court? Have your spouse sign the Voluntary Appearance and either return it to you or file it with the court. Dismissal of a case or Striking Pleadings is a drastic remedy. Attendance at mediation shall be limited to the parties to the dispute unless otherwise ordered by Court.